Maddelena uses tarot and elements of numerology for accurate insight and intuitively tunes into soul mate/life issues.

-Ask Maddelena a question

This week's questions:

I've discovered signs of betrayal in my partner and we recently broke up. Will we reunite or should I meet a new man as my friends suggest?

Maddelena says:

You will have more control over your life now and you will be doing a lot of thinking about someone who has a strong influence over you. I'm shown that you are about to enter a powerful relationship with someone you can trust and there could be lasting happiness here.

Your friends are loyal and will help you through this time but do not allow others to pressure you. I'm given that there is a sensitive romantic man coming into your life who has a laid back nature and has brown hair and either grey or blue eyes. You may meet him through a social invitation.

Old friends or past loves are going to be an important part in your life and Something will give your spirits a much needed boost. Troubles in a relationship are having a knock back effect but the worst is over even though you won't feel like burying the past at this stage.

My boyfriend of 1 year had a liver transplant, and I cared for him. Our friendship was that we helped each other, with money and in other ways. I went to his house one morning and there was a woman there - he just stopped contacting me or answering my calls. I owe him some money, and he will not talk to me. I have tried to call fifty times to pay him - I still love him, what do i do?

Maddelena says:

Your boyfriend had other interests, perhaps you didn't notice fully there was somebody. You are quite an emotional person that will give your all to others, you don't or can't give enough time to yourself.

There is not a soul mate connection around you and your ex boyfriend, you have unfortunately mistaken this relationship as more than it was ever going to be. Your ex-boyfriend didn't feel as emotionally tied as you do and basically isn't a very caring person and he is not worth your tears!

He is the kind of person that holds himself high and is disillusioned with himself. His behaviour and mannerism towards you tended to be a self pity and totally self inflicted through drugs or medication. He is the type of man that dwells on self pity and would have had you running around for him for ever and a day.

He doesn't care if you owe him money, oh don't worry he would ask you for the money if it suited him, but presently he doesn't care about the money and this is because he doesn't know how to face you.

Yes there is some guilt feeling with him, but the only guilt feeling is he knows how much you have been through together but yet his emotional side would not let him continue this and he feels in his own little mind that you are the one that is bothering him, you are in the wrong and you don't deserve an explanation.. That is his mind, he isn't taking into account that you are a person with emotions.

Please don't worry about the money and don't phone him anymore please, he just isn't worth it. The minute you cut him off he will be up your path and wondering why you haven't phoned him. Don't let your imagination run away with you Lynn, this other lady you saw him with isn't going to be in his life for long and know that presently you would be wanting him back, but would not have the lovely life which you deserve.

If she goes next week and you get a call, which by the way you are going to get a call from him, next month or in 3-6 months, he will try and get in touch with you. For your own good, think about yourself you deserve better and your loving and caring would go much better with someone that appreciates you as a woman and a good caring woman at that, not in the role of carer but one of companion, lover and true best friend.

I met someone a year ago, he lives in Australia which is where I'm moving to in a couple of months. Not for him but because it feels like the right path. I'm making a fresh start, have cleared a lot of baggage as well. Will the romance happen with this guy or someone else? Am I really on the right track? It's all happening, I just need some reassurance and some guidance .

Maddelena says:

Of course you are not going to be in Aus just to be with him but because it's fabulous and part of your life plan.

Let him know this. You appreciate his friendship but might like to keep it as friendship for a while and see what might or might not develop. You are happy, and cool, whatever. Let him know. This is likely to lift the pressure on him while increasing, and releasing, his desire.

Having sorted these initial difficulties, your relationship with this partner promises to be successful, plenty more pleasurable and passionate times to come.

The trouble is other men in your life - and a child. Your emotional life from now on will not be plain sailing as there are peaks and troughs to come, great waves of passion, but this is really no problem so long as you learn to surf, to dance on the waves and not feel you are going under.

Actually there are three men who will offer you the gift of self-knowledge through a relationship - one could be dark, maybe an earth-sign person and a fantastic possible partner. Another male in your life you will recognize as fascinating but destructive and he will soon be out of the race, which leaves your present partner as the third man.

At some point you will be faced with a choice and will again have to go with your deepest instinct as to who will best meet your needs and win your hand. I'm not saying it will be a case of pistols before dawn, but something close to that. Lucky you.

It is not unusual for a woman to have to choose between someone steady and reliable (King Arthur) and the dark and difficult stranger (Lancelot). Just enjoy being a Queen of Hearts. Your self-confidence is likely to receive a boost due to developments in your creative faculties as you settle into your new life. Spirit is giving me an image of you working hard to develop a talent.